5 Trust in the Lord with all your heart
and lean not on your own understanding;
6 in all your ways submit to him,
and he will make your paths straight.[a]
When men have been deeply hurt they begin to hide within themselves. It is then that they begin to work things out for themselves. They work out how to deal with the pain without letting go of their mask. When this is worked out it is based upon pain not hurt.
This is their own understanding.
Men need to look into their heart to see what is actually there. Many find deep wounds which has resulted in them not feeling good enough. The wounds have been their all their life almost. Many times it has seemed normal living with the pain.
Do you trust him with your heart?
When you submit this pain to Jesus he will heal your pain with his deep love. Only he has deep enough love for you to restore you. When your heart is restored your paths will become straight. This is because love is at the heart of your life now and not the pain.
Will you trust him with all your heart?