Road to Faith. Choices, Choices. 7

The turmoil that was inside me was a bit difficult to cope with. I went to a ‘Christian’ party that is where I met Stefani. I thought it was a safe place to go because it was Christian. I ended up getting close to Stefani.

The problem was although I knew Jesus and for a few months he was Lord of my life, I still cried out inside for romantic love. The need to be loved by a female was greater than the walk I was on with Jesus.

I thought at this time that I was unlovable, I thought I had been left on the shelf, even though I was in my late teens. Deep down inside I thought I was past it in life. I wanted both Jesus and this woman.

The problem was that every time I called her, she gave me her number, she never wanted to meet me. Inside my head I had already fallen in love with her. I had a one sided love affair.

I hated responsibility so I thought I would just see what would happen. I called her about 3 times a week, she spoke but was always busy. I thought there was still hope because she spoke to me every time on the phone.

This went on for about 6 months.

Then I discovered that Stefani was going out with one of my mates, mate. I hardly met this person Craig. I also found out that other people that I knew also knew she was seeing Craig. I had been telling these people about the phone conversations, they never said anything even though they knew in my head I was in love with her.

At that time being hurt by other Christians was the hardest thing I had to face. The question for me now was what to do next.


About cleavinghearts

I go to church in Troon Scotland. I want to see men from every nation rise up in Christ and be who they are called to be. I am interested in men getting together to praise and just do men's things. I also want to see women rise above their pain and turmoil so they are free to follow Jesus without the hindrances of their past.
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